Baby Cries When Put Down

Ever wondered why even the happiest of babies do cry for up to three hours per day? It’s because babies can’t do stuff for themselves. They have to rely on you to provide them with all the food, warmth and comfort they need. If a baby cries when put down, it’s a way of communicating those needs.

With experience, you will finally learn to interpret what your baby is trying to tell you. But, initially, this crying will upset you. Don’t worry; you will soon get to recognize your baby’s different crying patterns and will be able to anticipate their needs.

Some babies cry a lot, and others do not. If you do not have any experience in babies crying, they can worry that their child is not behaving normally. They cry to get attention and sometimes for other reasons as well.

Why newborn cries when put down?

Feed me!

Younger babies are more likely to cry because they are hungry. Babies’ stomachs are tiny. Thus they take subtle amounts but very frequently. If your child does not want to be put down, he will finally settle when his stomach gets filled.

Lacking comfort

Babies will usually cry if they have a soiled nappy. They are likely to do the same if their clothes are too tight, and you’ve not yet noticed.  If your baby is crying, the next thing you have to do is to check his nappy. It might be causing his discomfort.

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Baby might be Colic

colic baby is one who cries every time I put her down and begins to cry uncontrollably for prolonged periods. It is a short-term issue, and your child will outgrow it in the next three months or so. Colic causes a lot of stress and anxiety in parents, but it’s no reason for alarm.

They are Feeling too cold or hot.

You have to dress your baby according to the surrounding temperatures. You have to keep in mind that the baby has to put on one more layer of clothing to achieve the same level of comfort as you. When your baby is sleeping, it’s easier to add and remove layers to get the temperature right.

Baby needs a cuddle

Some kids require much cuddling and reassurance from parents. If you have fed the baby and checked the nappy, but he continues to cry, it might be that he craves a cuddle. Don’t hesitate to hold your child a little more for the first few months of their life.

Time for sleep

You might find out that your baby cries more than usual when he gets visitors. Crying might just be a way of telling you that they have had enough. You will notice that if you take him somewhere quiet, the crying might continue for a while but will eventually settle.

Not feeling well

Done everything but your baby continues to cry? It might be a sign that the baby is ill or in pain. A sick baby often cries with a different tone to their usual cry. If you think something is not right with your child, seek professional help immediately. Remember, nobody knows your child as well as you do.

What To Do If Baby Cries When Laid Down?

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If the baby falls asleep when nursing then wakes up when put down, there are things you can do to make him go to sleep. They might not work for all kids. Thus you need to try them out and find what works for your baby.

Rock the baby

Most babies have a great liking to being gently rocked. You can do this yourself or consider investing in a baby glider.

Babies love motion. Therefore, you can walk with them in a stroller. Sometimes a car ride can calm your child and put them right to sleep.

Let the baby suck on something

Some newborns have a strong need to suck on something. Sucking on a dummy or a thumb gives the child relaxation. It keeps the baby’s heart rate steady, relaxes the stomach, and helps the baby settle. Thus, you can get your child a pacifier, which might help him to relax.

Give your child a massage

Consider giving your baby a gentle massage. Rubbing the baby’s back and stomach has a calming effect. If your child has a problem with wind, put him in an upright position on your shoulder. Apply gentle rubbing on the back, the same massage on the stomach relieves Colic.

Sing or tell the baby a story

It’s soothing to both the parent and the child. A child can feel if a parent is stressed and will not find it easy to calm down.  A child can relax when the parent is also relaxed and calm. A story can helps you both.

Try swaddling your baby

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What is “swaddling”? It is the art of securely wrapping your child up in a cloth, which helps her feel assured to adjust to the new environment. Just be sure not to swaddle your baby too much past a month as it may limit their muscle development. Verify that the blanket does not enclose her neck and head.

Shaken Baby Syndrome

It is a type of trauma on the head a child can suffer if shaken violently. It occurs without the head coming in contact with anything. The injury can lead to long-term brain damage and, in rare cases, death. SBS has a probability of causing blindness or paralysis since it damages the spinal cord.

Babies below one year are at a higher risk since they tend to cry more often. It affects older children, as well. Therefore, avoid shaking children regardless of their age.

Rocking your baby will cause damage, and you have the means to reverse it. Irrespective of how frustrated you are, desist from shaking your baby. Calm down, and that’s how you can deal with the child.

If you find things out of your control, you can put the baby in a safe place and move away from the room for some minutes to cool off. If you think the baby is unwell, consult the doctor as soon as you can.


You can use a glider, give a massage, or read him a story when your baby wakes up when he’s put down. It will help your child to get back his sleep. Have anything you need to add?

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